Kind, honest, real.
Zera works because members treat each other well. These are the rules everyone agrees to.
- Be yourself. Use your real name, recent photos of you alone, and honest answers. Verification is there to make this easy.
- Be clear about what you want. Zera is for people looking for marriage. Say so honestly, and say if that changes.
- Be kind, even when it’s a no. Reply or close a match kindly. Don’t ghost, and don’t leave people hanging.
- Show up. If you plan a date, keep it, or cancel early and kindly. Repeated no-shows and late cancellations cost Founding Members their status.
- Keep it respectful. No harassment, hate, sexual messages or explicit photos. No pressure of any kind.
- Keep it safe. Never ask for money or financial details. Meet in public. Respect a “no” the first time.
- One person, one account. Adults 18 and over only. No fake profiles, no businesses, no selling.
If someone breaks the rules
We take reports seriously.
Report anyone from their profile or your chat. A real person reviews every report. Depending on what happened, we may send a warning, suspend the account or remove it for good. Serious safety issues are handled first.
The full rules are in our Terms.